I have been trying to get him to come to change, to come to church with me and to also get saved, but we always end up arguing and annoying each other, please help. I do not go out to drink and party like I used to, but my husband still does. Now that I have changed my life there are things that he does that anger me. My husband on the other hand is not born again. I recently got saved, and I am now very active in the church. I have been married for two years and we have a daughter. I got saved and now can’t cope with hubby Don’t be naive, commit and see where it goes! After all, as sages say, love is blind it knows no age, race, class etc. These are not the stone- age-days, today age is nothing but a number. I’m just a bit scared to commit because of the age difference, and of what my family and friends will say. I’m a 28-year-old man and I have been dating this 32-year-old lady since May last year. Afraid of committing to my older lover, help